THE BESTH LIFE.

Spectacles.

2012-01-20T13:25:00.000-08:00

On very first Friday of January, Abby got glasses. Two months ago, a random vision test in school determined that Abby required further eye examinations. You see {excuse the pun!}, her parent's do not wear glasses. We never saw any major clues that she needed to wear them. Looking back, she watched tv with her head turned slightly and tentative walking up/down the stairs. One eye was compensating for the other. Farsightedness which now all makes sense.

{Selected a pink 'princess' glasses bag.}

I watched Abby in the car the ENTIRE ride home in the rear view window. Her eyes opened wide, moving her eyes all around, her hand touching the window while looking out the window. I couldn't help but wonder what she was seeing with her newly improved vision. Then I felt really bad, like we failed her big time. {Nick later told me he felt the same way.}Two weeks in, Abby is wearing her specs without hesitation. Thata girl. xo

January Snapshots.

2012-01-06T21:53:00.000-08:00

A quiet Friday night. {And Nick is not monopolizing the laptop watching live evening NHL games!} Finally uploaded some iPhone photos of the new year.
As you can see, our DIY cupboard blackboard is getting good use.
Hudson now sits down in his big chair turning pages of books. This I love.
We spent New Years day afternoon walking along a harbour and explored a path that I've never walked on before. It's not like our town is really big either. It's cool that we haven't seen everything yet! Abby wanted to play in a playground and Nick suggested a great one that is fenced in. {Perfect for a two year old that tends to run away!} Of course, we couldn't play that long as the days still get really dark early. Seriously can't wait for Spring. I know. . . Old Man Winter has just begun!

Happy 2012.

2012-01-02T20:50:00.000-08:00

Here we are December 31st, 2011 approx 7:30pm. Abby & me made homemade paper hats for the "boys" {as she tends to say} and we adorned our headbands with paper flower-ettes.

There is always so much to say on here and then I get busy with life {totally overlooked Hudson's 2nd birthday, Christmas photos, et al}.

I sure hope you & yours have happy and healthy new year!

Love, April xoxo

I Let Myself Go.

2011-12-20T20:42:00.000-08:00

'Tis the season to drink, smoke, dye your hair black and don one ugly Christmas sweater.

Don't worry I didn't pick up my old former bad habits.

This was a full on prop photo for some lovely snowglobes given as $10 gifts for my SIL Jolene's rockin' ugly Christmas sweater party this past Saturday. Let's just say Nick and I really got carried away and had some fun! I cannot show you the other half of Nick's globe. {"Have a Twig and Berry Christmas!" was written on the gift tag.} Would you believe Jolene ended up receiving a lovely snowglobe from her brother for Christmas!

I Could Eat Off My Floors.

2011-11-30T13:16:00.001-08:00

BEFORE.

Do you see that white innocent looking dishwasher {see upper right}? Mid-August I noticed a portion of our laminate flooring looking rather water logged. We ignored the issue {so brilliant} & hoped it was from many wipes of spot cleaning with dampened papertowels. Nope. The water was seeping from our dishwasher and leaking a half cup of water per dishwasher cycle {as confirmed by our trusty handyman}. This meant a flooring overhaul and a new dishwasher. Ching ching. We lucked out in finding a great flooring guy {thanks to the powers of Facebook} and his association with a flooring company whom he used to work for. We received an excellent price on product and labour fees. As soon as we spotted a dark, diagonal faux slate we looked no further {the choices of colors & style have come along way. Not your Grandma's flooring!}.

AFTER.

During the process of removing our water damaged floors, our flooring guy uncovered three layers of old flooring. Tiles glued on concrete, linoleum then laminates. 40+ years of old flooring gone in one afternoon! This fact made me relieved that we were starting fresh.

Same angle.

We ran the vinyl into our powder room. Old toilet removed. Flooring guy noted further water damage from the toilet which was never property bolted to the floor!

And no one has ever used this toilet either! Such simple pleasures when it comes to home improvements.

Now this has kick started our desire to ''finish" our wee abode next year. Subway tile the kitchen backsplash and change out all hall / kid's bedroom lighting...and paint the bathrooms..and a stackable washer/dryer.

We'll get to all eventually, right?!

My "Lost" Month in Photos.

2011-11-28T14:24:00.001-08:00

During our Thanksgiving feast, Nick {along with my BIL's} selected a piece of artwork painted by my Dad. This one was hanging on their wall and I asked whether all art was game. My Dad painted this one 2009 and we love the colors it has given to our living room. And not to mention Hudson has learned the names of the fruit in the bowl. Also a learning tool!

Hudson our Unhappy Garden Gnome. My husband the{perverted looking} pilot. Halloween 2011. Abby went as a spider. Again. Please refer to photos from 2010, 2009!

{Psst..that's him front & center. And no, I did not use flash photography!}

My Father-in-Law, the thespian. Juror # 4 in the production of Twelve Angry Men at our local theatre. This was his very first play and had only a mere two plus months to prepare for one of the lead roles. He did incredible. A very proud moment to see him on stage. My Parent's watched along with us. My FIL reserved front and centre table seats for us too. I think acting is now in his blood and will audition for a play in the new year. He better.

Me & my Mom holding a portion of my Sedari collection. David Sedaris live in Vancouver. I never laughed so hard in my seat. My make-up ran down my face from the gut laughs that came out of me that night. It was such a pleasure sharing this experience with my Mom.

He drew me a dog!

The best part was meeting David Sedaris in person. I lined up for 30 mins and finally met my literary idol. He smiled, was chatty and you can tell that he loved what he did for a living. Even asked me whether I started my Christmas shopping. I told him not yet. And I asked if he had. Yes. I said "well when do you find the time {the man constantly tours}." He witty snappy response was that 'he made time.' I loved it.

First evening of Daylight Savings Time. The sun was setting too early when I noticed my shadow, the bench and the tree.

My 5 year old looking older. Even with pigtails.

ps. So I'm back. Well, I've been here all along. My laptop received a new screen for Christmas. {It better not fail for atleast a couple more years, please and thanks.} It feels good to back in bloggerville. Missed you! xo

Thank Goodness for a Smart Phone.

2011-11-09T16:45:00.000-08:00

Would you believe our laptop bit it again? This happened around the same time last year. So frustrating to say the least. I miss bloggin'! So here I am typing away on my iPhone! So many amazing things to share ie my encounter with my Literary Idol David Sedaris. One of the best nights I've had in a long while. Not to mention my Mom got to share it with me. Plus the ongoing saga of water damage to our kitchen floors. Tonight I get home to brand new flooring (unless there was a major hiccup? Let's hope not.) So now we are without a laptop until further notice. Please stand by. :-)

Chalkboard Meets Cupboard.

2011-10-21T20:22:00.000-07:00

Before snap.

We live in a very small townhouse {shy of 1150 square feet!}. When entering our small abode, you immediately enter the kitchen area. Our kitchen is lacking in wall space {no space to hang a nice fabric covered bulletin board or even a wall calendar!}. I came up with a quick DIY project that would not take up any space. Utilizing one cupboard door covered with black chalkboard paint, we could use this area for lists, notes, doodles or whatever we fancy. Nick gave me his blessing to paint this small area and it only took a few hours between coats.

I heart immediate gratification projects!

My assistant demonstrates how easy it is to apply painters tape around the perimeter of the cupboard.

First coat. Scary applying black paint to our cupboard. To be noted: the chalkboard paint was extremely smelly.

Two hours later, second coat.

{And one boy coated in chocolate cake.}

Final coat. {could use a forth coat?}

All that matters is that my little assistant loves to use it.

Scenes From a Thanksgiving.

2011-10-12T13:28:00.000-07:00

Dinner is Served at the Kids Table.

My parents invited over the Empey brood, the newly expanded Moore brood, the Besth Brood over for one scrumptious Thanksgiving feast. {Forgive the onslaught of photos!} Our Thanksgiving dinner is also a celebration of three birthdays - my Dad, and my two sisters who just happen to be born on the same day ~ October 7th. Yes, my parent's really planned that one well. My older sister celebrated a milestone. The big 4-0. {I remind her that I'm right behind her!} We all managed to squeeze in their house and have a fun laughter filled afternoon turned to evening holiday celebration.

Hudson was the first person seated at the table. The spread was a cornucopia of delish dishes and, oh, maybe 5 bottles of vino.

My awesome BIL's slash serious handymen. {Thank goodness they are because I did not marry one!}

We were about to say grace my Dad runs upstairs for the ole squeeky tripod. Then took ten minutes to set up the perfect shot.

Abby was mesmerized by Cameron's gaming skillz.

My "homemade but bought from a box and baked with love" cake for the birthday peoples - D A A C! Those Timbits really elevated the cake to a whole new level. {Extra "A" for Abby}

Nanny provided some fun props as per. They were a hit. Nanny's so smart.

A starry-eyed Catie Girl.

Little Annie dressed up to the nines - jewels and all!

A wee bit thirsty after the bird. My bartender Mom fixed me a yummy drink complete with swizzle stick!

My Mom requested a photo of her grandchildren. A wee bit chaotic can you say! Unfortunately not all made it into the picture. Sorry cousins. Cameron's knee on the left and Catie's arm to the right. {Someone needs to bring a wide-angle lens next time...hint hint Cathy!}

xoxo

Happy Birthday Abby! {400th Post}

2011-10-11T12:35:00.000-07:00

Never Stop Believing in Wishes.

Dear Abby,

Yesterday you turned five years old. Five!? When did this happen? I know I say this every single year but each year seems to fly by quicker than the last. This year you got it. You were really excited about your birthday! Your birthday also coincided with Thanksgiving. We felt grateful to be home sharing your special day. Your birthday always falls on the Thanksgiving weekend so we feel lucky as working parents to be home with you! Yesterday we stayed home {a rainy day to boot!} to watch the requested "Gnomeo & Juliet" and ate popcorn on the couch. You sat between us and chatted throughout the entire movie telling us your favorite parts and sayings.

You now have one month of kindergarten under your belt. We think you are enjoying it. You are a creature of few words when asked about your day. School related conversation comes in spits and spats. You tell us cool things about your school day...like baking a gingerbread man for instance. Your entire class went on a hunt around the school because the gingerbread man ran away {You can't catch me...I'm the Gingerbread Man}! Or singing some sweet songs like "This Little Light of Mine" complete with hand gestures. Or learning 'en francais' or telling us about your new classmates. The weekly emails from your teachers tell us that your k-class are great listeners and transitioning really well after only one month. I can't wait for you to read to me! That day will come and you can read me bedtime books, ok?

You are our tiny dancer; petite, small boned and light. We heard a saying in a movie once... "we treat her like fine china." And that's how we feel about you. You tell me that you want to be tall like me. {So I tell you to eat your fruits & veggies and you will!}

You are our anomaly...a redheaded blue-eyed alabaster beauty. Where did you come from? We feel very lucky that you are who you are. You make us really proud every single day. We feel so thankful you are ours.

We love you. xoxo

Happy Birthday To Us.

2011-10-03T20:49:00.000-07:00

Me in "Real Time"

This day five years ago I was nine months pregnant. Motherhood was about to begin for me. I had no clue what was around that corner. I blogged my first ever post. That was October 3rd, 2006. I started writing on this blog to share with my family and friends. A simple 'online diary'. Post a few pictures, post a few words of our new beautiful baby. The Besth Blog turned into something more than that. It became my sounding board, a place for me to write my frustrations, my fears, my happiness, my first unsettling days with a newborn. My first unsettling months with a baby. A place to seek advice from other Moms who have been there. Four years ago, we finally purchased our first house too. Our first bathroom renovation to follow. I shared my return to work after a one year maternity leave and how hard that transition was. I didn't know that personal blogs had that power. Three years ago I didn't know that I would suffer a painful miscarriage. It would not be right not to share this experience with you. You got me through this as well. Other stories have been told about my family, family members that I have loved and lost. New family members that were born into this world. Almost two years ago, I gave birth to a son. And my subsequent second return to the workforce as a working Mom.

The Besth family of four.

Here we are today,

five years later. I have an almost five year old daughter and an almost two year old son. And I am still older than my husband {haha}.

Thank You for allowing me to indulge in my rather 'normal' life and following along after all these years.

Love, April

XOXO

Sedaris.

2011-10-02T14:19:00.000-07:00

My Collection of Sedari.

{Sedaris pluralised. Get it?}

There is one particular author that I have loved since the moment I read Dress Your Family In Corduroy and Denim. David Sedaris already had me at the title of the book. It made me laugh like the rest of his collection of hilarious short stories. They seriously will make you laugh out loud. He is one brilliant author. In most books he describes his dysfunctional family {I also follow the career of his eccentric sister Amy Sedaris!}in great detail, general upbringing in Raleigh, North Carolina, his life observations and the love of his life. I've never read anything like his style before. When I am given the chance to recommend a 'good book' he's the first author I speak of.

A couple years ago Sedaris ventured on a book tour {When You are Engulfed in Flames}at Chapters. Vancouver was one of his stops. Of course, I missed out because of a weekender in Vegas with Nick. Oh woe is me, right? I was disappointed that I was missing out on finally meeting thee David Sedaris. My most favorite author in the whole wide world.

I get another chance on Saturday, November 5th. He comes into town at The Centre for the Performing Arts. This time he ain't free! Oh well. Mom and I get to hear him speak live and hear some passages from his most recent book Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk. How fantastic will it be hearing his own words voiced by the author! My Mom became a big fan after loaning her all my books.

Should I get the opportunity I shall tell David Sedaris that I love him without sounding too desperately freaky. And make him autograph each and every one of my treasured Sedari collection.

Highbrow.

2011-09-25T21:36:00.000-07:00

Date Night. Oh I made such a great date!

Nick bought us Stanley Theatre season tickets. So highbrow, right? Every few months we get the pleasure of watching a live production/play together. On Friday night we saw our first musical called Next To Normal. A Pulizer Prize winner about a family battling mental illness {the Mom} over 16 years. Her mental state finally reared its ugly head after coping with various medications unsuccessfully. I won't give away more detail than that. Very heavy subject matter laced with hilarious vugarities, singing and conversations. I laughed and then I cried. And cried some more. It hit me really hard {bad mix with end of week work exhaustion!} and I could not keep my emotions in check. I felt really dorky for being overly emotional until I realized that most around me had red weepy eyes. I was literally overcome. It was a beautiful, thought provoking play and it also made me feel grateful for my own upbringing. My immediate thoughts were with the people that I know battling mental illness on a daily basis.

The next play is called The Penelopiad by Margaret Atwood. The untold story of the original desperate housewife.

Ok, I think I can handle this one.

Welcome Annie - Addendum!

2011-09-16T20:38:00.000-07:00

This the first ever photo that I saw of Annie - Amy sent to my iPhone. I accidentally posted this one instead of the one below.

Freshie bathed baby.

Presenting Annie M, my niece. 8 pounds 8 ounces.

Born Tuesday, September 13th.

A sweet little perfect pink bundle. And oh that newborn smell. She was about 24 hours old when I took this photo of her {Addendum - no, I did not! Annie's Mommy did!}. Nick and I witnessed Annie partake in her first bath, well, really it was a sponge bath. You simply forget how tiny they are. The nurse wrapped her all up like a petite package and she was so content.

Congratulations to my baby sis Amy and her husband Tyler. And to big sister K and big brother Colby! {I think I lost my baby holding skillz...poor Annie cried when I held her. She loved being in her Mama's arms. Well, who doesn't? }

We love you all so much.

xoxo

PS. It's pretty cool that my sisters and I gave birth to boys and girls!
2011 Final Tally: 3 boys, 7 girls.

Diesel Powered. Uber Proud.

2011-09-10T23:27:00.000-07:00

Today my post is all about my Dad. This morning my Dad participated in the GranFondo. A bike race from Vancouver to Whistler ~ 122 kilometers. He cycled the race in four and a half hours. My Dad is 67 years old. He trained for this day for 11 months. We are so proud of his accomplishment.

We call Dad "Diesel" {sometimes shortened to "The Dies"}, my Mom "Motor". Their nicknames have stuck over the years. This will explain the message on the bristol board which my sister Cathy is holding. Before dawn, the Aporta sisters 'raced' to Vancouver to watch our Dad whiz by us on his bike. And how he looked like a million bucks.

Dad spotted!

He gave us a wave & looked so strong! Oh, my Mom was waiting for Dad at the Whistler finish line which is why you don't see her pretty face.

Walking away we spotted this golden guy.

Dad, thanks for showing us that at any age, racing up a mountainside is possible. You prepared, you trained and you succeeded.

We love you Dies.

xoxo

Sonshine.

2011-09-08T13:44:00.000-07:00

Abby's Last Day of Daycare.

2011-09-03T14:44:00.000-07:00

Kissing her brother's hand.

I made it through Abby's last day of daycare last Friday. It was really hard walking Abby over to Little Bunnies one last time. I squeezed her hand extra tight. Had a huge lump in my throat.

Our shadows along the fence line. We always wave at our shadows and I tickle the tops of their heads.

Opening up a present for Irene.

Abby painted a watercolor color and I helped to embellish the frame.

Hard to photograph. Inside of her card which stated all the many thank-yous over the years {click to enlarge}.

One last wave through the window. I walked away and let my tears roll.

That evening we treated the kids to McDonald's and chased the bunnies around.

First day of school begins in a few days. Abby's ready to go - we hope she will thrive in her new classroom. 25 kids, majority boys! This past week she transitioned into her new after-school children centre and fit in so well. Abby was delighted to have two sisters who also attends this same facility. Would you believe she met these sisters on her first day at Little Bunnies in 2007. How the world works its magic, talk about a full circle story. Kindergarten means having two awesome kindergarten teachers {one taught Nick way back when!} and a new Hello Kitty lunch kit. My Mom sewed a draw-string gym bag for her runners too. New beginnings for our girl which means a whole new world of learning, meeting new friends and growing up.

Good Luck Abby - we can't wait for you to start this new phase of your life. xoxo

Melancholic.

2011-08-19T13:41:00.000-07:00

November 2007. {First month in daycare.}

August 2011. {Almost five years old.}

Feeling a little melancholic and sad today. I come to realize that this is our last Friday together before my daughter starts kindergarten. And the fact that Abby is leaving the Little Bunnies Daycare after four years really puts life into perspective. My little baby girl is growing up and there's no stopping it.

Our daycare is throwing a farewell party on Wednesday. Irene will present me with a photo album of Abby's four years in daycare. If that doesn't start the tears rolling then I don't know what will. xo

Cowgirl Speak.

2011-08-10T21:32:00.000-07:00

Abby rides 'Bo' the horse at the Farm BBQ, Langley. BC Long Weekend.

Beaming ear to ear.

Hornby Island. Abby discovers not one but two brown horses near our cabin. {Oh, and one white beautiful horse too.}

Leaving Hornby Island, we left a couple carrots for her new friends.

Horses and all their splendor must be on the forethoughts of my daughter. Yesterday during dinner, Abby asked me TWICE if she could have a lasso.

Dear Photograph.

2011-08-08T21:22:00.000-07:00

Dear Photograph,

I miss being with my Family. Especially Summer Vacation. We never made it to Disneyland and I am so thankful for that.

{Hornby Island, July 1980. Check out our sweet sneaks on our feet! Hard to locate that very double rock we sat on many moons ago. It still evokes the same feelings spending this time with my sisters and parents. I submitted this one to the beautiful 'Dear Photograph' website. Thought it was worthy enough to share. xoxo}

More current Hornby Island photos to come - eventually!

The Love Boat: Mare & KO

2011-07-24T21:04:00.000-07:00

Handsome group. How many people can you fit on a single bed?

Hello Flash Face.

Me and my MIL & SIL.

Click to enlarge. You can see Mare above Magic Charm letters!

We noticed the KO & Mare on deck enjoying their last moments prior to the ceremony. Relaxed and sharing a toast.

The Vows.

Cue the Ring bearer and flower girl!

The Brides wearing beautiful handmade silk suits.

"Recycled" flower girl Jolene and ring bearer Nick. {They are holding 30 year old photos of themselves.}

A Mare Sandwich.

Yesterday we witnessed a marriage between Mare {Nick's Aunt} and her partner KO. We've known KO for four years and she 's wonderful. We felt so privileged to a part of their day and knowing that in Canada that love and marriage is accepted no matter what. Their ceremony and reception was held on a yacht in the Vancouver harbour. Not a rain drop in sight. The scenery was breathtaking and the night went far too quickly. We all danced in the moonlight on the second deck outside. It was sad when the boat pulled up to the harbour because we knew the night was already over. Congratulations Mare & KO. Wishing two very special people a wonderful happy life together.

xoxo

So Hip.

2011-07-19T21:17:00.000-07:00

Finally received a new mobile after waiting for three lengthy weeks. That was hard. I felt lost without it. It's amazing how much one relies on technology. I really do. It's the way of the world. You can't live with it, can't live without it. I was very happy with Roger's customer service and the fact they could sell me a refurbished iphone 3 for a fair price.

What I love most about it is the quality of the photos produced. It's amazing how one little phone can do so much. My sister Cathy introduced me to an cool app which changes the look of your photograph by way of film and flash. {A simple shake of the cell and the film/flash goes random!}

The Ugliest Plant in the World.

2011-07-17T12:59:00.000-07:00

My MIL gave me this Hen and Chicks plant last Summer. Totally low - maintenance (which is perfect my lack of green thumbs!). It lay dormant last season. It started to grow very tall this Summer. And this: a weird top sprouted a bunch of white flowers. It reminds me of a prehistoric plant when the dinosaurs roamed the earth. I know it's supposed to look like this but I find it quite unattractive! What do you think?

Same Chair. Same Book.

2011-07-08T21:03:00.000-07:00

Taken April 28, 2008.

Abby received her 18 months vaccination shots.

Taken July 8, 2011.

Hudson received his 18 month vaccination shots.

Abby and Olivia. Together again.

Abby and Olivia and Hudson sharing the chair.

I was spurred by the first photo of this post. If you noticed Abby was only wearing a top and diapers that day. She must have just woken from a nap?

I recently viewed this older photo of Abby sitting on the Poang chair reading her favorite book Olivia by Ian Falconer. Photo taken in her room at the time. I don't really recall how she was at 18 months except for the fact she always had a book in front of her! Abby was already an 'avid' reader.

After returning from the same doctor's office and receiving one shot in each arm, Hudson sat down in the same Poang chair {Hudson's room} for a comparison photo shoot. He's holding the same book, still in good condition. However, it was hard to keep Olivia on his lap! For posterity sake, I am so happy that I took some time out for these photos today. Did you notice that I recaptured one small detail? Hudson went pant-less too. xoxo

I Never Thought I'd See the Day.

2011-07-07T21:45:00.000-07:00

That's Abby being pushed by Daddy on the swings on Sunday.

Last Summer she loathed the swings and refused to even sit on a seat. Look at her now. I hope she flies higher and higher this Summer. And starts begging for an "under-duck"!

Canada Day 2011.

2011-07-04T21:56:00.000-07:00

Canada Day went a little different this year {missed you Logan Clan!xo}. We embarked on a short journey to Steveston for the annual parade and Salmon Festival. We found a good watching spot and sat in our folding chairs. How I missed seeing Miss Richmond and Miss Richmond News princesses! The parade has changed a lot over the years. Large groups walking which is fine but it was too much. Who doesn't love a good parade filled with floats! I cannot believe how many familiar faces that I recognized in the massive crowds. I grew up in Richmond so there was no doubt having a few reunions. One encounter included an ex-boyfriend {oh, did I mention my face was riddled with adult acne. Isn't that always the way?}that I dated throughout high-school.

Abby really enjoyed watching the parade and wouldn't stop talking about it. Still hasn't! We walked around the festival grounds, bought a bag of cotton candy. Abby tasted it for the first time. We later played hide and seek amongst a grouping of trees and made some cool memories together as a family. Later in the evening, we had a bbq with Grandma & Grandpa B. First time we've been able to do this now that Grandpa is retired.

I think we started off July on the right footing. And did you notice, this isn't a negative post for a change?! xoxo

Huddy a wee bit grumpy.

Breaking bread as a snack. Anything to keep the boy happy!

Hide and Seek time!

Game time - Abby won a plush fish. She named her Sparkles.

Canada Day socks.

Garbage.

2011-06-25T12:40:00.000-07:00

This sums up the month of June.
{Racoons ransacked our garage leaving a huge mess.}

Oh June. You have not been kind. Besides the dreadful weather {cold, rainy days}, this has proven to be a challenging month.

Debbie Downer Alert.

Hudson got really sick. I mean really sick like taking him to Children's Hospital sick because he threw up for almost 48 hours. We waited for 4 hours start to finish to see a doctor. Not so bad. Dr. Bishop was worth the wait. What an amazing doctor who confirmed that Hudson unfortunately caught that awful gastro-flu bug spreading around. He finally stopped throwing up in the hospital and then endured a few days of post-diarrhea. Hudson looked so sick and lost a couple of pounds. That was two weekends ago. His appetite is back with a vengeance and back to his old self. Thankfully!
Of course, I caught a lighter strain of Hudson' s virus and a cold. I fought through the weekend {Nick had to work too} and I was a mess. I missed my Granny's 90th birthday party with my entire family last Saturday. I couldn't help but have a sad pity party. I missed out on something very special that will never happen again.
On Monday, I LOST my four month old mobile. My fantastic Samsung. I have no clue where it may have gone. In a hazy stuffy head moment, I placed it down somewhere and it's gone. I have never been that careless.
Nick's travelling to Minnesota {Hello Fargo!}for work training during the same week we were supposed to be at Hornby Island. This year will be different as no cousins for Abby & Hudson to play with. We're planning to depart earlier and not stay for an entire week. This year will be a different experience, a quieter vacation. We are excited to spend time at the beach with the kids and let's hope the weather will be beautiful like it was last year.

Life has been exceptionally busy, major sleep deprivation, dealing with sick children, myself, the Vancouver riots, busy work life, commuting..it's all too much for me to bare. I was/am exhausted.
Rant over.

Yesterday, my helpline came. My Parents! They arrived at 12:30pm and stayed until 9:30pm. My Dad & I went for a walk together which was a rare occurrence. We got to chat and catch up which I really enjoyed. Abby & Hudson received so much attention and playtime from them. Nick & I were able to go out for dinner on a sunny patio. I really need that. We had all this free time that we ended up wandering the streets of Ladner wondering what to do. It was exactly what 'the doctor' ordered aka my Mom.

Here's to a better month of July. Please and thank you!

Rise from the ashes.

2011-06-16T22:38:00.000-07:00

The Vancouver Canucks lost in game seven against the Boston Bruins. It was a loss and the best team won. I wasn't emotionally invested in the Stanley Cup play-offs much to Nick's chagrin. I never took to hockey culture and not a huge fan of the sport. The game ended. I updated my Facebook status: "Stay Classy, Vancouver {no matter the outcome}"

I ate my words.

I am emotionally invested in downtown Vancouver where I work. I saw a car in flames on TV. I felt a sense of deja-vu. It reminded me of the 1994 Riot on Robson Street. Only this time, this riot was on a larger and more terrifying scale. 100,000 people in the downtown area. Tear gas. Looting. Multiple cars on fire. Crazy town. I watched the shocking news coverage unfold on TV. This was seriously happening again:

Riot squad deployed.

How different a day makes. A picture of Hudson Bay mid-morning. The poor looted Bay. Every window was literally mashed and boarded up. Looters cleaned out the MAC makeup store, women included. {You probably don't know how to properly apply such expensive makeup, girlies!}

Every board was covered in penned messages of love, hope and wishes for the City of Vancouver. An instant albeit temporary 'art installation'.

Respect Our City.

The clean up of glass shards.

Restoration vans parked along Granville Street.

I work above Tip Top Tailors.

Today was a new day. I noticed volunteers sweeping up glass, picking up debris, garbage on the streets. Reporters walking around. Smiling happy Vancouverites. The streets were very clean by the time I got into work at 8:00am.

The 2011 riots brought out the worst and the very best in people. I suppose Vancouver will remain as a "no fun" city thanks to a group of anarchists {non fans who wore black shirts ready for battle} who ruined it for the rest of us. It was totally unnecessary and shameful. A dark day in Vancouver history and hopefully never repeated. Right?

Hello Yellow.

2011-06-08T20:16:00.000-07:00

A former blah black rusty mailbox.

Transformed into something bright and cheerful.

Retrieving bills won't feel so bad.

I wonder how long it will take for Strata to complain about the color? {Let's hope not!}

Boys will be boys.

2011-06-03T21:27:00.000-07:00

Orange vs Red. The girls wore matching stripes.

Today my parent's and my cute pregnant sister {25 weeks already!} Amy and her adorable one year old son came over for lunch. My Mom brought over the lunch fixin's and my Dad made all the yummy salmon sangys. We observed Hudson vs Colby in all their glory! To explain, they are merely four months apart in age. They were like a double-trouble tag team. If one did one thing, the other would soon follow suit. My sister snapped the four photos above during an adventure with a chip bowl! {she provided the cool photo montage. I can't take any credit!} They were seriously fun to watch in action. I cannot imagine how it would be like to have twins and deal with such craziness on a daily basis! I was pooped!

Anyhoo, a great afternoon spent with most of my family {sorry Cath, next time!}on a finally sunny day. You all fill me with light and love. xoxo

Seeing Red.

2011-05-28T22:45:00.000-07:00

Silhouette.

Today was a tough one. Today Abby admitted with tears that she doesn't like her 'red' hair. I truly was not expecting a simple hair brushing routine would result in this conversation. Abby wants her hair to be blond. I guess to resemble her Mommy. Or her brother {he has light brown hair}? I understood. I hugged her and told her how special she is to me, to us. She cried in my arms. It didn't matter that I told her that her hair color was so unique and beautiful. It didn't matter that I told her her locks will lighten by the summer sun. She wanted to look different and that really struck me. I've never heard her say these words about her appearance. I left the room and quietly shed a few tears myself. She's 4.5 years old and she's not happy about how she looks. I just feel really sad about that. I hope as she gets older she will embrace her lovely locks. On the other hand, she expressed her real feelings inside. And I feel grateful she was able to tell me.

She will become a confident strong minded woman who knows what she wants in life and going for it. I know she will. It's my responsibility and Nick's to have her become this. We'll be mindful not placing so much attention to her hair color. {Even though I feel such the opposite.} Like my red-headed BIL said over Facebook "it's not easy being red." I suppose it's not. xoxo

Lucky 7.

2011-05-22T15:50:00.000-07:00

I am loved. I feel loved. I love my husband. I love my two kids that we created out of love. Love or money. I'd take the love over money any day. xoxo

A Hudson Time Out.

2011-05-20T17:02:00.000-07:00

The poor second child. Seldom updates, posts and photographs. A post about Hudson is rare. Sorry little guy. I love you so very much but keeping up with you takes up my time and energy!

You are now 17 months old (on May 11th). You love to wave at everybody and everything in passing. You rip your bib off your neck in one swoop to show us you're done eating. Period. You love to eat and no troubles trying new foods. You are finally upright and cruising. It's a joy to see. You 'talk' and point. You say 'this' when pointing to any object. You clap all the time. Your first word was 'Go'. How many times did we say "Ready Set- Go" to you. You have a very sunny disposition, happy and love to share a laugh with your sister. You do get frustrated when your sister takes a toy away. Your facial expressions are priceless. You think it's hilarious when you hit your face an object over and over again. You have curls all around your head. All your baby teeth are in except the last molars. You had your first 'flu' {throwing up variety}bout at 13 months. You've caught a cold every month since birth. As I type this, you have snot pouring out of your little nostril. Oh Huddy, how we love you. You've added a new dynamic to our household. We can't imagine life without you. XOXOXO

Lockdown.

Already sucking in the gut & pushing out the chest. Macho man.

Mommy, you left me for 1 minute. Why?!!

Playing in his sister's bedroom. Loves throwing this light fabric over his head like a hat.

Mish Mash May.

2011-05-14T12:23:00.000-07:00

I really can't believe my month of April is over. It's now the second week into May. This is my first post this month! Life has been busy. Too busy for my liking. I am tired and look it these days. Sometimes I wonder why all this hustling and bustling is for. Meh. I digress.

Here are some highlights which provide my happiness:

A now retired FIL and Husband happy with the Canuck's win. Observing those two on the couch was more exciting to me than the hockey game itself.

Mother's Day 2011. My special request is always breaky in bed and some quiet time. Egg on toast with coffee. I lasted about 15 minutes and only wanted to be downstairs with my family. We went to Church and later Nick sent me into a garden shop where I selected one hanging basket and various annuals for our backyard pots.

Mother's Day far surpasses Christmas and my birthday in my books. Abby decorated a wooden jewelery box {inside a sweet pink necklace and purple bracelet!} complete with a card and two handmade signs on sticks. She made these in daycare and couldn't wait. I opened it on Thursday - the moment I came home from work! It seriously brought tears to my eyes when I opened my gifts. The card was from Nick and Abby drew a maze for me.

Sharing a toy. Abby asked Hudson to pass her a toy frog. He did. I somehow caught this in action which I love. Now that Hudson is more mobile, they are quite sweet siblings together. {Most days.}

Abby in my most favorite shirt on her. {But it's getting too small on her now.}

Vann Vs. Bus: One Last Run

2011-04-25T12:49:00.000-07:00

On Thursday night, we surprised my Father-in-Law Vann on his very last bus run in Richmond. Bay #7 to be exact. This was his last night being a bus driver after 20 years of service. How could we not pass up such an opportunity for a wee surprise! Little did he know we {Nick, the kids and my Mother-in-Law!} were all waiting patiently for his arrival via the 410 Bus at 8:15pm. He saw us right away, yellow sign and happy smiles. My heart was beating quickly as it was all too exciting. We told him that we will be joining him on his last run. Abby was happy to sit directly behind her Grandpa and watching the world outside by. Hudson content in stroller, well past his bedtime. It all worked out splendidly. How I love surprising people that I love. Congratulations Vann/Grandpa - enjoy your next chapter in life! We felt very privileged having spent your last run with you. xoxo

When Dads Dress Kids.

2011-04-22T20:13:00.000-07:00

Hey, where's the flood, H?

A & H's Bedroom Wall Tour.

2011-04-16T21:10:00.000-07:00

Having a boy and a girl means decorating differently {my former dream held a vision of two little girls sharing a room and having a spare third room to use!}. I'm not one to have a "theme". I stared to build up the little objects, pictures, and decorations. I applied the same technique to Hudson's bedroom. My decoration 'style' is a little willy-nilly, eclectic and all the objects in their rooms have special meaning behind them. I don't know how to properly hang pictures symmetrically so I never do {see photos}! I have serious design visions of what I really want to do but finances hold me back. {one day, one day} Here's a quick tour of their bedroom walls:

Hudson's shelf. That mini-Paddington Bear belongs to me. He's sitting on a 'vintage' Goodnight Moon book. My old bib painted by my Auntie Lilli rests on an old mirror bought in Victoria.

HUDSON'S name in hockey cards Nick purchased on ebay. The neat clip holder is from IKEA. I started to clip personal items on the bottom like Abby's handwriting - first time she ever wrote H's name down on paper. It's hanging right beside our chair where we sit together. Something eye-catching for Hudson to look at.

Two of my favorite prints grouped together. Left print ordered from sarah + abraham and the white framed print detailing Hudson's birth announcement made from a very talented graphic designer & friend Cynthia Merriman. I seriously love Cynthia's work and creativity.

Wall decorations over Abby's bed. Red decals covered by three printed birdies on felt. I bought those birdies at a now defunct store {The Petrie Dish} when Abby was a baby. Now they are hanging out in the trees, where birdies belong.

Prints and artwork hung over Abby's IKEA shelf. The left print is another beautiful original from Cynthia Merriman and larger one from sarah + abraham. Glass cranberry glasses purchased Victoria during our honeymoon. The pink glass starfish was bought on Hornby Island.

Abby's 'hard to reach' boxed shelves containing things I prefer not get broken or, ahem, mishandled. The pretty teacup is from my Mom and tucked inside are some hand knit finger puppets from Bowser Island. The Noah's Ark {Brenda MIL} and engraved ducky {Auntie Amy} were presents for my baby shower.

I know one day all those baby type items will be carefully stored away. Right now I will enjoy seeing these objects as they remind me that my children are growing up - too fast for my liking. I hope A & H love where they fall asleep at night and when those sleepy heads awake in the morning. I hope their rooms make them happy, like they do for me.

Upright.

2011-04-16T19:54:00.000-07:00

Look who finally got off his fat bottom and do something about it.

Let Them Eat {Birthday} Cake.

2011-04-11T20:18:00.000-07:00

A birthday care package from my dear friend Kat. She lives in Ontario and has two pretty girls. One named Abigail. I think we were destined to be forever friends even though we haven't seen each other in years.

My parents arrive with a cake in hand. Would you believe my Dad individually popped in the sprinkles - talk about personalizing it! They took me out for a lengthy lunch {You see, I was a free woman for the day. No kids, no work!} at a nearby restaurant. Dad was getting a bit anxious that we were taking up a table for so long. We chatted for well into two hours +! I didn't mind a bit that we sat inside on a sunny day... how often do I have this one-on-one time with my parents. Never.

My beautiful Mom who turned 64 the very next day! I bought her this spring scarf. So pretty on her!

Came home and took one last photo of the cake before it was devoured.

Ok, one more picture. Nick wanted 38 candles on the cake...no way.

I told my family that I'd like to just eat cake for dinner. Abby was quite happy with my decision. She has a sweet tooth like her Mommy.

Don't worry, Hudson ate a sensible meal. Cake for dessert.

Static Heads.

2011-04-07T16:11:00.000-07:00

My Saturday Surprise.

2011-04-03T16:02:00.000-07:00

Me sporting MLS merchandise. {I know. Stop the presses.}

Happy Husband.

Singing 'Oh Canada' {Cool fact: the woman who now sings for all the home games also sang at my sister Amy's wedding!}

This shot was taken for Hege. Can you spot your husband? Sorry M is hidden from view!

Amazing extra time action - two goals in two minutes making it 3 - 3 against Kansas.

Vancouver downtown scenes from the car. En route to the hotel.

Hotel Vancouver reflection in another building.

When in doubt, use the self-portrait shot. Thanks bathroom mirror.

Dinner at the Tea House, Fergeuson Point, Stanley Park. Duck leg confit for me, Fraser Valley pork chop for Nick. Plus a glass of champagne & marinated olives before dinner was served.

Sunday morning, Burrard Street. I've always been drawn to this building called the Dal Grauer Substation. This shot will become the cover of Nick's new album{kidding}. I love this picture of him.

This cup sums it all up.

Nick surprised me with a night away for my birthday. A long time ago I remarked that I would love to spend a night downtown. He actually was listening this time! All week he was acting like a Cheshire cat - I could just tell in his behaviour. Plus on Friday, he did all our laundry. That was the big tip off! By Friday night, he told me that he booked a room at the Century Plaza Hotel post Whitecaps game. And dinner at the Tea House to boot! We don't get out much and spending 24 hours together sans kids was a very exciting proposition. It was the best birthday present ever. {Thank you to Grandma B who volunteered to watch two kids with a very hurt shoulder...they had a wonderful time too!} It was lovely to reconnect with uninterrupted conversation, sharing many laughs, holding hands and being a couple. Of course, sometimes the best part is coming home to really excited kids. xoxo

Ps. Happy April, Happy Spring everyone!

St. Paddy's Day.

2011-03-23T21:36:00.000-07:00

What Abby woke up to. Green flag made in daycare, green glasses, green-only Fruit Loops and a real four leaf clover necklace {All the way from Ireland! A lovely Irish girlfriend at work had her sister find this necklace and send it to her - how very thoughtful. Oh, I may wear it to work next year!}.

Happy leprechaun.

Don't mess with a tired and grumpy leprechaun. Hope she appreciated her Mommy separating all those green fruit loops.

Home again. Abby colored up Huddy's hat!

Yes, I know that St. Patrick's Day was almost a week ago. I really enjoy celebrating Ireland's national holiday even though we do not have a stitch of Irish blood in this family. Well, maybe Abby as she has the 'red' hair in the family. It's fun to dress the kids in green for the day. Abby's mentioned a few times that it's "Clover Day" and I call her my special leprechaun. During the day, the daycare paraded down the street clutching their green flags and wearing their homemade paper leprechaun hats.

4 Leaf Clover by Ella Higginson

One leaf is for HOPE, and one for FAITH
And one is for LOVE, you know,
And GOD put another in for LUCK ~
If you search, you will find where they grow.

Super Surprise Soccer Saturday.

2011-03-19T21:04:00.000-07:00

The Bag.

Close-up of his 'card' attached to The Bag.

Today was a very good day for Nick. It's his actual birthday on Monday. He really{understatement!} wanted a Whitecaps jersey to wear during the Whitecaps inaugural MLS season. That's all he wanted for this birthday. I noted an 'IOU' on a magazine and sadly remarked that all jerseys were sold out around the city. He didn't want to hear such news as we were about to depart for the game. I couldn't let him pout, so like a sleight of hands magician, I pulled out a bag containing a long sleeved jersey. Ta Da! Needless to say, my soccer playing husband was really ecstatic.

PS.Whitecaps won their first game of the season. 4 - 2 against Toronto FC. As a non-sports watcher, I quite enjoyed myself. 25k pumped crowd, warm sun on our faces, good seats, fun season ticket neighbors. Nick asked me whether I would feel the same if it was pouring rain. Hmmmm...perhaps not. He knows me quite well, that man.

Happy Birthday Nick. XOXO

Pants on the Ground.

2011-03-19T11:54:00.000-07:00

It's ok to 'drop trou' when you're only 15 months.

A Baptised Boy.

2011-03-07T20:57:00.000-08:00

Yesterday on a beautiful sunny Sunday, our son Hudson was baptised at Sacred Heart Parish. He and four other young babies/newborns (Hudson was the second oldest) were blessed by Father Emmanuel during an almost hour baptismal service. Hudson's godparent's are Uncle Cliff & Auntie Jolene (unfortunately she was on vacation so my MIL stepped in on her behalf). My entire family witnessed this baptism while the bright sunlight flooded into the stain glass windows above. Huddy wasn't squirmy or tired - he observed what was going on around him. We were very proud of him. Plus, he looked so dapper in his bow-tied outfit! It took us awhile to have our second baptised as Abby was merely three months old. Now Abby was old enough to witness her brother's baptism all from Nanny's lap!
Afterward, we celebrated with lunch and cake. It was a very special day as Nick's Grandparent's 68 {68!} Wedding Anniversary was on the very same day. And my cousin Andrea's boy Matty was baptised seven years ago. March 6th: a day for the family record books. xoxo

Making the Bed.

2011-02-25T16:35:00.000-08:00

Making the bed is futile when someone wants to hide under the cozy duvet pretending to be a hermit crab.

Oh hello!

Sometimes housework gets put on hold for these moments.

Decorator.

2011-02-18T16:49:00.000-08:00

I truly get a kick the way Abby leaves things around the house. I took a few pictures to document her sweet creative ways.

Her messy desk full of paper, cutouts, crayons...

Close-up. Obviously she enjoys writing her name down everywhere.

'Dino' the Dinosaur all dressed up with no place to go.

Abby hid Daddy's homemade Valentine's card in our dirty laundry hamper.

In her room.

My Funny Valentines.

2011-02-13T19:43:00.000-08:00

Exhibit A.

Exhibit H.

SistersWeekend 2011

2011-02-11T15:25:00.000-08:00

SW2011: February 4th - 6th.

I seriously do not know the last time my sisters and I were together for almost two days! It was a collaborative effort on all parts {appreciation to our husbands and babysitters ie. my Mom & Dad included !} as our weekend getaway was planned since October. It had to happen no matter what. We were craving some independence from our usual crazy hectic lives to be the Aporta sisters. We shopped, dined, laughed (to the point of tears!), walked, slept in and even received a surprising "noise complaint" from our hotel. {We were not being unruly, we were just being sisters who inherited loud laughs.} It was really special to have this time with my sisters, Cathy & Amy. How I adore you both so very much. Thank you for the memories. Here's to next year! XOXO

Tiny Dancer.

2011-01-30T13:26:00.000-08:00

Our tiny dancer took her first ever ballet class yesterday. Blossoming Ballerinas. She enjoyed it and smiled the entire time. We hope it gives her confidence in moving her body and be around girls her own age. Nick and I watched her and nine other dancers. It was really sweet to watch these little girls prance around the room wearing various shades of pinks, purple and black bodysuits.

Huddy, a wee bit bored.

Later, play-doh time.

Top loose bun. I hope her hair color stays this way.

Abby wore her ballet ensemble all day...finally took it off before bed.

Cousin A.

2011-01-15T19:30:00.000-08:00

Huddy, me and Cousin A at our Auntie's Christmas feast.

Hope you don't mind that I'm telling the worldwideweb that it's your 10x4 Birthday today, Cousin A. Seeing that you are not on Facebook {yet use the system vicariously through your husband!} this is an alternative way to deliver my message to you! You are such an inspiration to me as a working Momma. You are a devoted wife and Mom to two young boys. You have always shown a keen interest in my life and wanting to know all about me, no matter how busy your life gets. You have passed along so many boy handmedowns which I have always been grateful to use. When we were younger I looked up to you as my much older more mature cousin who travelled the world with her family. Oh, I still look up to you to this day. Of course, our age gap has diminished over time and we are only really three years apart. We have a lot in common besides similar body shapes. (remember we stood back-to-back that even our calves touched in the same places?). Sending my love and affection today, Cousin A.
Thank goodness our parent's created life long friends and cousins. XOXO

Abby the Photographer.

2011-01-09T20:05:00.000-08:00

Photography compliments of Abby. Santa brought her a 2.0 VTech Point n' Shoot for Christmas. She was way more excited that her camera had games to play on it. It also has the capabilities to manipulate photos. Hello Daddy! We managed to squeak out a few good shots from her from Christmas and beyond.
The "newness" has already worn off for Abby (like most toys!)...I hope she doesn't stop snappin'!

My Big Bang Theory.

2011-01-03T20:49:00.000-08:00

Huddy doesn't mind the change.

My big bang theory has nothing to do with space or the universe. It's about hair, folks. A touchy and personal subject.
The moment you change your hair drastically you may regret it the next morning. Surely you've experienced a hair oops {insert a WTF if you prefer!} in your lifetime. My 'go to' hair tends to be a one-length style as worn for the past decade plus. I needed a change before my return to work. My talented hairdresser sis-in-law told me that my hair/face could carry off bangs. Chop chop chop and watched my hair fall onto the floor. My heart was racing and my face felt flushed. I woke up the next morning and didn't feel like me. Abby noticed right away and told me that she too wanted bangs. Hudson stared at me funny at first. Don't get me wrong, I didn't regret the hairstyle. I was actually quite proud of myself for going for the gusto. Please don't think that I am fishing for compliments. Just saying how things go sometimes. I may give my bangs a 'grace period' and get used to the idea of such change. It's only hair, right?

The Besth's Are Back

2011-01-02T19:58:00.000-08:00

Gee, it's only been over a month. I wasn't that busy. Ok, so I was working and all. Major blame was due to technical difficulties on the 'new' laptop. It's fixed obviously.
The Besth's are back, just in time for 2011! Wishing you a belated Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Will post some obligatory Christmas photos soon. xoxo

Sadness.

2010-11-29T15:02:00.000-08:00

Working Mommy.

2010-11-24T20:25:00.000-08:00

Anyone notice my masthead update?
I removed ~~sleeping~~ and replaced it with working. There won't be much sleeping for Mommy once I return to work December 6th. It's crazy how quickly a year goes by. A year ago, I was preparing for a baby and for Christmas and beyond excited. What a difference a year makes. Don't get me wrong, I am excited that Hudson will turn one a couple weeks before Christmas. To commemorate his birthday, we will select a live tree at the local tree lot and decorate it on his special day. It just so happens that his birthday falls on a Saturday! I may leave his birthday prezzies under the tree and start a new tradition for him! Knowing that I am returning into the workforce during the Christmas season makes it hurt a little less.
Transitioning from no routine all year to a work routine is going to suck the life right out of me. I am worried about sleep deprivation {Hudson wakes up 2-3x a night} and the crazy morning/evening scramble. I am worried that lack of sleep will bring on illness for the entire family. I expect that Hudson will catch each and every virus to hit the daycare and eventually pass it along to his sis. I will attempt to maintain my exercise routine to thwart these germs and prevent sickness. I am very worried about Hudson's emotional state in daycare. He cries the entire time due to separation anxiety. No exaggeration. I really thought his behaviour would differ from his sister. Abby cried for three whole months. True fact: her three month crying record remains untouched at daycare! I really don't remember how we got through it. I know we'll get through this rough hurdle too. Please don't take three or more months, Hudson. Please?
On a positive note, I am employed at an exceptional workplace, have supportive managers and an amazing bunch of co-workers {hi guys! see you soon!}. I am looking forward to laughing every day at work and conversing with adults again. {oh, and the "occasional" shopping spree at H&M!} I believe working may be the 'easiest' part of this entire transition.
Bring on the concealer, bring on Tim's Double-Doubles, bring on the Visine, bring on the tears, bring on the grey hairs, bring on a real paycheck. Bring it on! I've endured the back-to-work emotional/physical upheaval four years ago and will do it again. So I say to myself.

Wish me luck. I'm still gonna need it.

Hudson, in happier times. This means being at home with his Mommy.

Snow Days.

2010-11-24T19:48:00.000-08:00

A snowball trail.

The snowman & Abby.

It snowed this weekend!
It's hard to believe that we got a small dump of snow. The snow that covered the leaves has yet to melt away. Crazy cold temperatures with a wind chill all week long. It's been a couple years since our last major snowfall. Forecasters predicted a cold winter season. Fun for the kids, not so much for commuting Mommy & Daddy. Plus, we have very old plumbing and pipes that bang bang bang all night long due to the cold temperatures!

Show Me the Mommy (l'exercise l'edition!)

2010-11-19T19:05:00.000-08:00

Do you recognize me? I am wearing some lovely 'Sue Sylvester' Adidas striped running pants circa 2005, Nick's landscaping work jacket and, yup, his baseball cap.
I like working out incognito.

Bubbles n' Stripes.

2010-11-17T20:31:00.000-08:00

Wild Child.

2010-11-13T11:01:00.000-08:00

Reunion.

2010-11-10T16:18:00.000-08:00

A 9-passenger van means sister Cathy arrived safely from Chilliwack. I was blow drying my hair and noticed these big bright brake lights shining into the kitchen!

"Baby" Coco (almost a 3 years old) with sister Caroline playing at Abby's table. They were very quiet for the first while...normally it's Abby who plays shy. Eventually they warmed up and the trio played so well together.

Mom brings prezzies from Seattle for us. {Beautiful hand-knit flowers for our winter coats.}

Our beautiful Oma with beautiful sister Amy.

Cousin lunch time. They ate so well together on the floor.

Naturally positioned in birth order.

Abby playing with Colby.

Hudson and Oma.

Despite the ugly Tuesday weather, our house brought in major sunshine. In no particular order. . . my Oma (my Dad's Mom), my Mom, my older sister Cathy with two of her youngest, and younger sister Amy with Colby. It was one serious AWR: Aporta Women Reunion {my, that's a lot of vowels!}. My Mom brought three big bags full of lunch items and both sisters brought sweet treats. My Mom has become quite familar in my kitchen and swept in .. wa la lunch was served! Oma was in her glory watching her great-grandchildren in action. Two young boys on the floor and the girls being girls.

I love mat leave for days like this. It was a treasured day. Special thanks Cathy for driving all the way out here & back for only two short hours. This time I didn't have to say "I wish you were here too."
xoxo

A Good Weekend.

2010-11-08T10:38:00.000-08:00

Friday night started with a bang! A 60th Surprise Party for my Father-in-Law Vann. He had no clue which made the party that much sweeter. My parent's came over to babysit and with them a beautiful rainbow appeared. Pure Happiness.

Group shot of the party people. Enlarge for detail.

Vann cracked up when he opened this from his own Mom.

A shirt he better wear on his actual birthday - in Mexico.

Nick brought me flowers from Safeway {Safeway!}. Abby selected these beautiful ones. I think she has great taste. Hudson couldn't stop staring at them either.

Abby took this photo of me. We just returned from having professional family photos taken yesterday. The weather turned out to be fantastic. Straight up sunshine, nary a wind. My awesome sis Ames came over {with a happy Colby} to curl my hair. I wish she could do this everyday. I am hoping that we'll have a couple photos to choose from for 2010 Christmas cards. Maybe one for our wall.

Daddy looks bald. {not that there is anything wrong with that!}

Nick vs Hudson!

2010-11-03T16:19:00.000-07:00

Hallow's Eve 2010

2010-11-01T11:13:00.000-07:00

Before the fun started.

Let's go Trick or Treating

Looking at the loot.

First knock.

Our pumpkin display at our door. Abby was the painted pumpkin, Nick was 'Boo', a personalized 'H' for Hudson and I am full o' holes.

Halloween 2010 at our house. Abby dressed up as a spider again (refer to photos of last year) and Hudson was supposed to dress up as a giraffe. A late nap for him so he missed out on the fun. Next year he will be older to enjoy the festivities. Nick took Abby around the neighborhood. Abby wasn't so interested and home by 6:30pm! She prefered to distribute the treats to the approximate 35 kids knocking at our door. At one point I snuck outside and knocked on our door too...I threw on Abby's toque and bent down to look smaller. Abby opened the door and surprise it was her Mommy. She thought it was pretty hilarious. I tricked her!
Grandpa & Grandma B. surprised us later too...it was nice to have some visitors, especially them!
I woke up this morning to see many pumpkins smashed in our neighborhood...and rainy rainy rainy. We were all very fortunate that the rains held off last night.
I hope everyone had a fun & frightful Hallow's Eve too! How you deal with all the candies that your kids have collected? Nick and I managed to nosh half o' bowl of "leftovers" last night...and this morning they are calling out my name!

Show Me the Mommy (on the floor version!)

2010-10-29T13:55:00.000-07:00

It was a little awkward holding up the laptop over my head today!

Marina Walk.

2010-10-28T15:17:00.001-07:00

Yesterday I took a stroll with Hudson to the marina {you can see the marina as you enter Ladner from the Massey Tunnel, located West} and packed the camera. That was a good decision as changing leaves were brilliant in color. Hues of orange and pinks with the sunlight streaming into the trees. I kept stopping to take photos.
The last time we visited the marina, Hudson was still sleeping hours at a time during the day. This time, he was wide-eyed after a marathon nap. It was an epic walk and I underestimated how far the marina was from our house. We had a few minutes to sit on a bench and snap some photos. {More like resting my feet; I was smart enough to wear sensible runners!} I was worried about not making it back to pick Abby from daycare. The walk back wasn't as enjoyable due to keeping an eye on the time. Hudson grew tired and napped on the way home. My intention was to formally document our day. I realized that this was our last one-on-one time. Next week Hudson will transition into daycare. One hour first week, two hours second week and so on. I hope my happy boy remains happy. It couldn't get any worse than Abby crying for the first three months, can it? I just have a sense that Hudson will have an easier time. {Maybe this time I'll be crying for the first three months.}

Thank you for a beautiful afternoon, Hudson.

Hudson could pass as a lil' fisherman in that touque.

Proof that I picked up my daughter.

Obligatory Pumpkin Patch Photos 2010

2010-10-27T13:09:00.001-07:00

Before Halloween 2010 comes and goes...these needed to be posted. Two weekends ago, we made our annual trek to Westham Island Herb n' Pumpkin Farm with the Logan Family and the Moore Family. The weather was perfect; warm sunshine all day. We spent about two hours on the farm which equaled to approximately 500+ photos between three families. Talk about Major Photo Ops!

'Hired Help' named Laura.

This was Abby's forth time here.

A sea of artichokes.

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Tyler n' Monkey Moore.

Amy and Me.

Laura and Me.

Glad we brought the 'hired help!'

Mirror image.

Thank you for coming Logan Family!

Orange.

2010-10-25T13:34:00.001-07:00

Show Me the Mommy (Halloween Version)

2010-10-22T12:55:00.001-07:00

Abby selected the spooky scene (dark girl that she is). The background shows a spider hanging from the ceiling. I believe I am wearing the same ensemble as last Friday. Same hair style pulled back into low ponytail.

The April Diaries. Special Notes.

2010-10-21T21:02:00.000-07:00

1981.
Dear Diary,
I watched superman on tv and I thought he was cute and cluddly {sic}. I love him. He is my best hero. I like his "suit."

Ain't No Potty Like a Westcoast Potty...

2010-10-19T14:55:00.000-07:00

Thumbs up Girl!

..coz a Westcoast potty don't stop!

Yes, this is yet another post regarding poo. Sorry folks. It's been awhile since my last update regarding Abby's lack o' poo efforts. It's party time in the Besth Household. Or shall I say potty time! Reason to celebrate and put away the prunes. Abby's consistently doing #2's on the toilet and potty. I mean she tells me to go away and leave her alone. Today she told me to shut the bathroom door for some privacy! I never thought I'd hear those precious words muttered, rather, yelled at me. Brings tears to Mama's eyes! Thankfully she's capable of doing her "business" before my mat leave ends. This entire potty-training process only took about a year and a half. No, not long at all.

Hudson, you're starting potty training at one years old. Let's start peeing on some Cheerios buddy.

Meet Toady.

2010-10-18T15:50:00.000-07:00

Meet Toady, the latest addition to our family.
If the photo isn't clear enough, Toady is a Betta fish, Abby's birthday gift from Grandma & Grandpa B. Abby named him {or her?} Toady. A reddish active fighter fish. Abby promised that she will feed Toady every single day. We'll see. For certain I'll be the one cleaning Toady's cute little abode. Fishbowls have come along way. This one is modern looking which can be hung on a wall.

Welcome to the family Toady. We hope you stay active for a long time!

Abby and Cousin Ella looking at Toady.

Show Me the Mommy (and Daddy!).

2010-10-15T16:31:00.001-07:00

Daddy just arrived home from work. . .

Thanksgiving 2010 Download!

2010-10-13T15:08:00.000-07:00

Thanksgiving slash Birthday celebrations with both sides of the family. Forgive the major downloads as it was hard to exclude any from this post.

Abby assisting me in baking her chocolate birthday cake.

More so, the best part of licking the batter.

Sporting her fancy apron. It's really tiring licking all that batter.

Auntie Kimm's house for Turkey Dinner #1. Grandma, Dave, Jolene and three month old Noah.

Grandpa B and Hudson.

Hudson and Mommy.

Blowing out four birthday candles. {Note the waves in Abby's hair.}

Birthday morning - hello Birthday Girl!

Her smile speaks for itself . She really {understatement} wanted the latest Thomas the Tank Engine DVD - Misty Island Rescue.

Turkey Dinner #2 - My Mom & Dad's house. My Dad aka Papa holding Hudson and Caroline.

Unhappy Hudson (briefly!) held by Uncle Cliff with Caroline and Carly looking on.

Cameron aka Justin Bieber showing off those shaped rubber bracelets which are all the rage. My Mom had the foresight to buy these for the kids!

A color-coordinate trio: Cliff with Colby & Hudson.

Carly reading to Abby.

The 'Kid's Table' all decorated by Mom.

Blowing out Abby's birthday candles.

The Birthday bunch: Dad, Amy and Cathy.

All together now!

Cathy brought along chocolate cake #2! It was a chocolate buffet, including chocolate ice-cream. Not one bite of pumpkin pie!

Hilarity ensued as per! I really love this photo.

Bottle Drive.

2010-10-12T16:10:00.000-07:00

During our Thanksgiving dinner at my parent's house, my Dad, an accomplished artist, mentioned that he was passing on some of his artwork to his three daughters. He gave us a little book full of photos of the framed pieces. Let me tell you, we've been waiting for the day that Dad would let some of his painted treasures go! We have bugged him too many times to count. In birth order, Cathy went first to select her piece, I went second and Amy third. We sat on their bed privately and figured out the best piece for us. We all managed to select three different ones. I was secretly hoping for sisterly fight on Thanksgiving over art! It was hard to decide. They are all so beautiful to which my Dad usually humbly disagrees.

This one came home with us on Thanksgiving Sunday. It just fit in the car. On Monday morning I promptly hung it on our wall:

Abby counting the bottles.

It was exactly what my bare wall needed. It really adds something special and unique. Thank you for relinquishing your art, Dad. Perhaps this Christmas we can add another? {Hint hint.} xoxo

Abby's Four!

2010-10-11T12:37:00.000-07:00

October 10, 2006...How did this:

October 10, 2010...Become this:

Where did these four years go my lovebug?
It seems like yesterday I gave birth to you on a warm Tuesday evening at 8:19pm. The nurse placed you on my chest and how warm and heavy you felt. And the hair...the red hair that shocked me when I saw it.
Today your hair is growing past your shoulder and noticing these lovely waves. The red is gone replaced with strawberry blond. You have limbs like your Daddy. Your blue eyes came from me. You have the funniest sense of humour. You know when I change things around the house, very observant eyes you have. You have an incredible memory and the ability of putting together puzzles for your age makes me astounded. I guess that's how Moms feel.
Your love for your brother gets stronger on each passing day. You kiss him every day and give him toys to play with when his hands are empty.

You have filled us with love in our house. Our lives would not be real or alive without you in it.

Lots of love Birthday Girl.
Mommy & Daddy xoxo

Season of Change.

2010-10-06T11:40:00.000-07:00

Is it really October?
It doesn't seem possible with this warm Indian summer air. The leaves are indeed changing colors, horse chestnuts are falling and my little girl is almost four years old. Not to mention my darling sisters and my fit-as-a-fiddle Dad celebrate their triplet birthdays tomorrow. Today marks the two month countdown return to work. I have begun the weaning transition with Hudson. Many changes have begun. He wasn't accepting of a bottle (just like his sis was!) so I switched formulas. Today he gulped a few ounces back. Hallelujah. This was the first morning he had his morning nap without nursing. So it begins. I feel thankful for nursing Hudson for ten months plus as I may not give it up completely once I return to work. Wish me luck.
Busy Thanksgiving weekend coming up...celebrating turkey dinner #1 at Auntie Kimm's house and on Abby's actual birthday dinner #2 at my Parent's house! I haven't seen my sister Cathy and her family since mid-July. Now that's just plain silly.

An Autumn Vignette on our brown hutch.

Abby's ever expanding paper Turkey Collection.

PS. Oh Happy Birthday to you Blog - you're Four years old too!

Wordless Wednesday.

2010-09-22T14:51:00.001-07:00

Watercolors.

2010-09-20T16:24:00.001-07:00

Finally bought new paints and paper for our budding artist. The local toy store carries various papers/paints so off we went to buy more. For awhile Abby used regular paper for the watercolors resulting in soggy messy paper. You need to use watercolor paper of course!
She really enjoys changing the color of the water with her paintbrushes. Some days that's all she wants to do. Add color to brush and swirl around in the water cup producing a different color each time.
The day she painted these ones pink paint was her color of choice. The glasses looked like pink lemonade, don't you think?

Tongue out means complete concentration.

The best rainbow I've ever seen.

"Cotton Candy"

Finger painting explosion.

Mommy's attempt. (I stuck my tongue out too)

P-P-P-Poker Face.

2010-09-15T12:08:00.001-07:00

Nine Months.

2010-09-13T13:27:00.000-07:00

Dear Hudson,

Incredible, you are now in your ninth month. In three very short months you will be ONE.

Your current weight: 21.4 pounds, 29.5 inches in length. You currently have 6 teeth {two bottom, 4 top}. Still nursing between meals...eating whole foods like avocado, yams, sweet potato, bananas, bread and introduced yogurt the other day. We'll try out some new fruits/veggies this week. Also, attempt the sippy cup and perhaps bypass the bottle.

No desire for crawling however you have your own way of maneuvering around (sideways, backwards) and find yourself at the edge of your crib (head near bars).

You grab for just about anything. Big or small. You like the feeling of Daddy's curly hair in your hands....poor Daddy! Ouch! Abby doesn't like the idea of you holding her toys ... she hasn't seen nothing yet! You're very vocal - day or night. Sometimes we call you our dinosaur as you make these 'roaring' type sounds.

I love the feeling of your warm hands on my shoulders when I hold you.

Abby still brings the biggest grins to your handsome face. I hope this never ends.

How we love you and having you here on earth, how blessed we are.

Love,

Mommy xoxo

Stolen Moments.

2010-09-11T11:42:00.001-07:00

Candid photos taken via Amber's {Lucas' girlfriend} camera on a moonlit night riding bikes while deer spotting on Hornby Island. I rode my bike in a dress for the first time since being a little girl. It felt so free.
We didn't spot one deer that night however the moon was full and alive. I felt full of love and felt so alive. Major belly laughs with my Father-in-Law, my Sister-in-Law and the awesome girlfriend of my Brother-in-Law {I really hope they get married one day}.

Labour Day Weekender.

2010-09-07T21:49:00.000-07:00

Abby sporting her new shirt from Irene (our daycare provider) who returned from Greece after 6 weeks. Abby wore this shirt for almost 48 hours.

New ride for the bike. Bought secondhand from our friends who are moving away for a couple of years {you better come back!}. Boo-hoo.

Hanging out at Starbucks.

Action shot. Probably last time Abby will sit in the bike seat.

Visited Bird sanctuary... impromptu visit & good weather!

Self portrait {sorry Hudson!}

Abby loves her picture taken.

Ditto. {Boot n' Sombrero for lunch}

Labour Day. Nick's work BBQ at Granville Island in the rain. Never stopped raining. We ducked into 'Kid's Only Market' to dry off! Channeling Amelia Earhart.

Merry Go Round.

Finished the day with story time. Abby selected this book "The Fantastic Mr. Wani" at the library. Great book. She somehow knows.

The April Diaries.

2010-09-05T21:26:00.001-07:00

{1982, Entry #1.}

Hornby Island II. The One Including Family Photos.

2010-08-30T21:03:00.000-07:00

Reasons to love our Hornby Island Getaway:

1. Abby flying a kite for the first time.
2. The vast wildlife. Nightly bike rides for deer watching. Guaranteed most nights.
2. The vast sealife: Jellyfish galore, starfish, sand dollars, shells, warm ocean water.
3. Overhearing our daughter converse to her cousin Ella tent-to-tent at night.
4. Dipping Hudson's toes/legs for the first time in the ocean.
5. Sleeping in a cozy room under the 'A' frame in the back of house.
6. Eating/drinking like queens and kings daily.
7. Winery tour at Mead Mountain. Sampled 5 different types of wine on a mountain top.
8. The weather. Beautiful. It lightly rained during the second to last day.
9. Knowing it was fine with the family that I was the only one to decline an hour and a half hike to Helliwell Provincial Park and back. Momma don't do early am hikes.
10. Watching old VHS tapes of my past life and finding vintage '90210' & 'Party of Five' episodes taped as a bonus.
11. Hanging out, relaxing, laughing and bonding further with my in-laws, sister-in-law, brother-in-law(s).
12. Watching Abby & Ella play with vintage Fisher Price people complete with camper, farm animals (who needed all those toys we packed?).
13. Helping Lucas complete one puzzle and the laughs that ensued. Between Lucas and his girlfriend Amber, they completed 5 puzzles. Puzzle Masters!
14. Visiting the Farmer's Market in the middle of the forest surrounded by trees.
15. Using an outhouse. (not really a highlight!)
16. Showering only twice. Me? I know.
17. Heading into 'town' and buying pottery.
18. Picking up random driftwood - one shaped like the number 7.
19. Total of six ferry rides was so worth it.
20. Making incredible family memories to last until next year summer's adventure (Thank you Brenda & Vann xoxo).

{Abby was on the earlier ferry with her Grandma & Grandpa!}

{Painted by Jolene}

Hornby Island Sandstone.

2010-08-29T15:17:00.000-07:00

These photos were taken at Whaling Station Bay at Hornby Island. Our cabin was a stone's (no pun intended) throw away from this amazing beach. My fascination grew with this particular circular volcanic-made sandstone which surrounded the beach. I kept touching it, staring at the many circular holes that were created centuries ago. It's really a sight to be hold. This sandstone can be found all over Hornby Island. Our beach had the softest finest sand which felt great between the toes.
{Don't worry, will post photos of actual family too!}

Ready.

2010-08-21T23:24:00.000-07:00

Abby found a way of packing herself. Hornby Island here we come. . .

A Tale of Two Weddings.

2010-08-18T16:33:00.000-07:00

Nick's cousin Sheri married Jas this past weekend. We witnessed not one wedding but two. The
first ceremony took place Saturday morning at a Sikh temple in Richmond. A very hot day and I remarked to Nick as we stepped out the air-conditioned car that it felt like we were actually in India! We were given instruction to wear a scarf over our heads which applied to both men and women. I also borrowed a beautiful sari suit and now I want to keep it!
Abby and Hudson came with us. I prepared Abby as best as I could regarding the special ceremony and mentioned that no English will be spoken. The men sat on one side of the room while the woman sat on the other. Abby impressed me as she sat quietly in Grandma B and Auntie JoJo laps. Auntie Kimm and I took turns holding Hudson in our arms. It's important for us as parents to show her other cultures and she certainly absorbed a lot that morning. The temple photos do not do justice. Sheri looked incredible - her jewelled red dress and jewellery. Can you say stunning.
The second "white" wedding occurred on Sunday night - ceremony and reception. This time Sheri wore a beautiful 'Great Gasby-esque' cream jewelled wedding gown. Showstopper. I can't say which dress I loved more. Wish I snapped more photos to share.
The night was just getting started when I called home to check in. My little man denied a bottle from Nanny. So Mommy came home early. I really wanted to dance to more bollywood music. Alas, it was a very different beautiful weekend.

Likey.

2010-08-17T15:03:00.000-07:00

Like his Mommy, Hudson excitedly rips open the 2011 IKEA catalogue.

Summer Mashup.

2010-08-13T16:15:00.000-07:00

Koyangi's Annual Summer BBQ - Asian theme. {Nick acting silly. Posted this one so he remembers the next time he ruins another photo!} Awesome food, most importantly, loved being together with my entire family.

My Parents aka "Nanny & Papa" with all their grandkids - in one glorious sitting.

Grabby von Grabster.

The Farm BBQ. Grandpa B with 1/2 of his grandkids. Abby loved the playhouse this year.

Chowing down on the delish bottomless grub.

Computer time. {PBSkids.org rules}

Visiting Amy & Tyler & Colbert at Point Roberts {Amy looking slim & trim!}.

Hanging out before bedtime.

{There. I feel better catching up on my poor neglected blog!}

Eight Months

2010-08-12T15:28:00.000-07:00

Dear Hudson,

You are now 8 months old. {mat leave is going way too quickly for my liking.} You are wearing 12 month clothing, weighing approx 21 pounds {on our scale}. Eating solid foods three times a day. You rarely give us cues to stop feeding you. Some days you blow raspberries and the food travels everywhere. Look out! The only food you dislike is Raspberry Yogurt grain cereal. Not a big fan of the tartness. Otherwise, you appreciate eating. As most boys do. We will soon offer you portions of mushed banana and avocado. And even try some wholewheat bread pieces.
Napping twice a day - one late morning & one afternoon. Yesterday you finally slept through the night. Perhaps it's a sign of things to come. {Did I just jinx it?}
Your forth tooth is finally appearing! It's been funny seeing this one solo top tooth for almost one month. It's wide, similar to your sister's front teeth.
No sign of crawling and showing no interest! You enjoy sitting up and reaching for your sister's toys which eventually lead into your mouth. Abby's realized that she'll soon need to share her toys.
You love to chat and these days sounding like a little dinosaur - a growling sound is coming from you. {Will have to capture this on video!}
Abby still captures your heart. Her antics make you heartily laugh which melts my heart.
You smile at anyone. Not playing shy yet.
You are such a boy with big hands, chubby legs and a joyous disposition.

Love, Mommy
xoxo

Wordless Wednesday.

2010-08-11T22:20:00.001-07:00

24 Hours Sans Toddler.

2010-07-29T21:31:00.000-07:00

Abby enjoyed a 24 excursion to Grandma & Grandpa B's house. First time sleeping over at their house. The last time Abby experienced a sleepover was at Nanny & Papa's {my parents} house in the Fall. Being that Grandma B is on a holidays it became a perfect arrangement. Last night Grandma B picked Abby up at 6:00pm and dropped her off around 7:00pm tonight. It's funny, I thought I'd have all this "free"time. Nope.
Abby filled up her day too. The beach, playtime, watching the Lion King movie, selecting a toy at the local toy store, hanging with her cousins...likely more activities with Grandma will be revealed to me tomorrow. It's great to hear an excited Abby chat about this and that. How I enjoy this period of communication between us.

For me, the house was extremely quiet this morning. This was my first time -just the two of us. I brought Hudson into our bed for cuddles. Hudson was acting unusually fussy and probably missed the little girl who makes him laugh aloud.

Later my Mom came over for a visit while my Dad visited the dentist and met his own Mom for lunch. Lucky me... I had my Mom all to myself {sorry sisters}! We went for a walk {Hudson finally napping in stroller} and ate at Ricky's for lunch. I don't recall the last time Mom and I carried on a full fledged conversation. We walked over to Safeway so I could pick out dinner...on the menu was homemade potato salad, corn on the cob and sausages. Mom's idea was the homemade potato salad! It was delicious and added a special something to our meal tonight.

Hello Nanny!

Dining el fresco. {Note: we did not consume all those sausages in one sitting}

Honk Honk! Well, look who finally showed up.

A talkative reunion.

Thank you Mom B. for looking after Abby who is sleeping very sound right now. Thank you Mom A. for looking after me & Hudson. xoxo

Wordless Wednesday.

2010-07-28T16:17:00.000-07:00

Future Bag o' Burden?

2010-07-26T14:00:00.000-07:00

A day is not complete for Abby without drawing or doodling a picture or two. She's quite content sitting down with a pen or crayon in her right hand. {No lefty like her Momma.} We love that she is so creative in her drawings and in her imagination. The ultimate question is ... what does a Mommy do with all this artwork? Store it away or capture in a photo, then recycle? I saved some of my favorite pieces which are glued into her special scrapbook. Abby's nearly four and we have many many years ahead for future art. Currently her artwork is over flowing!

This leads to my dilemma of my former artwork that my Mom saved for me and my sisters. God bless her, she saved just about everything from our childhood! I affectionately deemed it the 'Bag o' Burden' which is collecting dust in my closet for the past 4+ years. Hence, the name. Total burden {sorry Mom!}. The large hefty bag contains my artwork and scrapbooks from elementary school. The 'BoB' has remained sealed since the day my Mom lovingly packed these memories away for us. Obviously, my Mom never had a digital camera in the 80s and I understand why she couldn't part with our things.

For the record, I have yet to 'recycle' any of Abby's art...I am my Mother's Daughter. Future Bag o' Burden?...ask me in 2035.

Summer Lovin'.

2010-07-23T14:30:00.000-07:00

Summer is in full force. The weather is finally perfect. The best season to be on maternity leave. I still remember Abby's first summer and now it's Hudson's turn. These are the days to be cherished even with next to nothing sleep {that's another story}. It's easier to wake up on days like these:

Summertime means barefeet.

Summertime means Popsicles for dinner ... with friends.

My first summertime!

Summertime means hanging out at the nearest park.

Summertime means funny sun hats.

Summertime means tiny feet that fit in small places.

Summertime means having someone to share it with.

Date Night.

2010-07-19T10:55:00.001-07:00

Nick and I had a date night Saturday. Greek food on the patio. Sipping Zinfandel in the sunshine. We talked without interrupt, except from our server. We ate blizzards at Diary Queen and walked the beach. No kidding, we spotted some friends who were also on their own date night. Small world, perfect night.

Meanwhile back at home... Abby decorated cupcakes with Auntie Kimm. {This time she pre-baked the cupcakes to save time. Smart!} Hudson drank a bottle of formula and was sleeping when we got home. wow.

{Side story: Abby decorated the cupcakes and noted that one was Mommy, Daddy and Cousin Colby. No mention of her own brother! Too funny!}

Lady in the Pink Hat.

2010-07-18T12:52:00.000-07:00

Kissing Wall.

2010-07-16T20:14:00.000-07:00

Amazing what a new day brings. I actually got something accomplished today.
Presenting our new family kissing wall which can be viewed at the top of our stairs. It started with a simple kiss (note wedding day photo). . . which grew and grew times two.

PS. Thank you for your warm comments, my regular followers. :-) My girlfriend offered to have Abby over today, my lovely colleagues emailed me and passed on their words of encouragement, cousin A who always has something sweet to say. And my beautiful Mom who celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversay yesterday.
Love you all.
xoxo

Frustrations.

2010-07-15T15:40:00.001-07:00

Here I am on the laptop on a most gorgeous Summer day. I want to be outside enjoying the fresh air feeling the sun on my face. Abby is watching Treehouse and I just finished sipping a tea. Momma's needing a break. I am feeling very frustrated of late...
I want Abby to play and pedal her bike and walk more. Instead I get tears and telling me that 'exercise is out' {it was funny the first time}. Was I like this as a child? I wish she would simply poop in the potty {disregard my last post about pooping. it only happened twice since she got her prize!}. I wish Hudson slept better both day and night. It's been a whole month of crazy night sleeps - up every 2-3 hours reminding me of how Abby used to be as a baby. It got me feeling really down and all I wanted was proper rest. I've tried the 'cry it out method' during the day and placing him on his belly. His naps have improved greatly. Now we need to work on the night. However, crying it out is not conducive with a light sleeper next door.
I know parenthood means phases and stages.
I wish I had more time. I accomplish laundry, sometimes a vacuum job, cleaning only to have it all pile up on me.
Once I return to work full time, these things will be magnified and mat leave will seem like a holiday. Nick is already worried about how grumpy I will become.
I wish I had more time for Nick too. His new position has him out of the house for 11 hours a day and landscapes all day Saturday. We barely get a conversation going these days.
I am frustrated with other things and wishing things went differently. Such is life. I know as I say to Abby sometimes "tomorrow is a new day."
I am just tired and grumpy today so thanks for allowing me to vent.